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posicScott D. Clary writes in Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/scottdclarypage/posts/pfbid0NANkeELVHdgyUBqXKksN7G3FwEagA4Q1BCvquEyLooGAVB8NMheduEVDjsr9yUnVl :
The thing about finding your people is that it usually requires being more specifically yourself in public, not less. The people who are trying to appeal broadly end up belonging nowhere. The ones who are honest about their specific obsessions and weird interests attract the small group that exactly matches.
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That is what I've been trying to do, and in the recent months even more than before. Not sure if I've found the proper approach yet, though.
The thing about finding your people is that it usually requires being more specifically yourself in public, not less. The people who are trying to appeal broadly end up belonging nowhere. The ones who are honest about their specific obsessions and weird interests attract the small group that exactly matches.
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That is what I've been trying to do, and in the recent months even more than before. Not sure if I've found the proper approach yet, though.
